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An example of a simple 2-on-2 approach : "Hi... my friend isn't from
here (introduce friend)... so how do you guys know each other?" You can
also use this to approach a larger group. "So how does everyone know
everyone else?" Yeah, that line is great... especially when the truth comes
out and the guy that THOUGHT he was here on a date finds out he's only HANGING
OUT with the girl he wants and she declares herself free for your
picking:)"
An example of a pattern-like approach : "I'm sure that you, like me,
have had some really interesting experiences in your life. You know experiences
that were incredibly fascinating and absorbing, like maybe when you were a kid
and you went to a museum and you just got lost in wonder and delight at what you
were seeing. If you were to share a memory about one of your most interesting
experiences, a person you met perhaps, or a place you've been, or something
you've learned that still holds a deep interest for you, what would it be?"
Another pattern-like approach. :
""Excuse me (to get her to stop) I just wanted to say thank you."
Her curiosity bells just went DING. She'll almost inevitably ask why, though it
is ok if she doesn't. Move into standard mirroring and rapport building
techniques as you continue...
"Have you ever had one of those days where, you find yourself feeling sort
of aloof... you're not really happy, but not really sad either... you just feel
like your adrift. Then suddenly you find you bump into somebody with an
incredibly warm and beautiful smile that just makes you feel wonderful for the
rest of the day?"
She will almost surely smile more at this point, or give some degree of positive
response.
"So, I just had to thank you for brightening up my day... Though, you know
it would be a shame if this is the last time I'll see that wonderful smile...
what's your name?""
An example of approaching girls in cafeterias with some aspects of
patterning. :
Walk up from a direction where they can see you coming (I like them to
feel like I walked up to them confidently, not like I'm trying to sneak up
on them or trick them).
Sit down while you say something with a big smile and like you've known
them your whole life. It doesn't much matter what you say, but if you say
something interesting it makes it easier to continue the conversation (now
they have had a state change and are wondering if they know you).
Make interesting conversation (use patterns if you know them) while
mirroring them. Tell them a little bit about yourself then SMOOTHLY #close.
M: "So, How was you day" (sit down) H: "Good... how was yours" (This is a very typical response if
you were smooth with the intro). M: "My day was awesome so far (try to match her outlook, if she
looks completely down try "pretty good").I had a great day at work,
and then one of my closest friends that I hadn't talked to in a while called me.
You know how you can just talk to someone and no how long it's been you just
_feel_ this great connection with them..." H: "That's cool, I have a friend like that" M: "Someone you can really trust, who always makes you feel good to
talk to?" H: "Yeah, I've known her forever" M: ... H: ... M: "I have to go, but I've really enjoyed this conversation,
why don't you give me your number and we can talk again"
"How was your day", pacing and rapport building. : "If
there's nothing particularly interesting about the environment in which you find
yourselves, the first sentence or two gives you the perfect opportunity to pace
her (this is more what I'd be tempted to do at a party or some social
gathering).
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Example 1
You walk across to her and, genuinely interested, ask:
"So, how was your day?"
In a fraction of a second she flickers through the events of the day, smiles,
and says "Great!" Her smile is infectious and you find yours matching
it as you reply.
"Excellent! So was mine. What did you do?"
She's had a great day. You've had a great day. She feels a small (at this stage)
degree of rapport and should have little problem sharing her good mood. This
leads her into talking about what she did to have such a great day, a list of
sentences in which you should find any number of conversational hooks to bite
on.
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Example 2
You walk across to her and, genuinely interested, ask:
"So, how was your day?"
In a fraction of a second she flickers through the events of the day, sighs, and
says "Awful." Her sadness is infectious and you feel an empathic frown
flow across your face as you ask "Oh, what happened?"
This then theoretically leads her into talking about what happened, and gives
you the opportunity to show her that you can bring her from a pisspoor mood into
a happy one. Hear her out. Whereas to fix up our bad moods we (i.e. men) usually
look for solutions to the cause, women tend to share their feelings. Once she's
unloaded the baggage, you've got rapport. Time to turn her mood around and get
her happy. Not easy, but attainable.
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Example 3
You walk down to her and, genuinely interested, ask: "So, how was your
day?"
She's in a torpor. "Boring."
Looking for a spark of life to flash across her eyes, you continue.
"Oh. In which case, how was yesterday?"
She sighs. "Just as bad."
Medic! We need some 50mg of adrenaline over here, STAT!
You figure it's time to have some fun and, placing your hands apart as if you're
measuring a fish, say: "So you're pretty sure you don't feel *this* excited
yet?"
She looks, pauses. "No."
You bring your hands closer. "Perhaps you're feeling this excited?"
She can see where you're going. Was that slight muscle-twitch a hint of a smile
hastily covered?
"Not really."
You hold up in one hand a very small gap between your thumb and forefinger and,
smiling but seriously: "Could you possibly be at the very least,
entertaining the thought of considering the likelihood of being *this*
excited."
If you can bring a smile to a catatonic, they'll love you for it. Same with
angry people. Personally, I enjoy the challenge of making pissed-off people
smile."
Update You look exactly like.... A brilliant opener : say "Excuse me, I
don't mean to interrupt you while you are (whatever she is doing), but you look
exactly like... you know, it is amazing how much you look like this person...
you look just like (as you drag this out you develop rapport immediately, it's
great)..."
From here you have to judge her personality. The real ending is "You look
exactly like... someone I should get to know better" or "...somebody I
would like to meet!" But if you sense that she's uptight or has no sense of
humour, go serious with something like "...you know, the more I look at you
the more I realize that you aren't who I thought you were, but I would like to
meet you in any event. My name is..."."
Update The Horoscope. :
"Hey, my horoscope today said that I need to make new friends, and as weird
as that sounds, I could actually use some new friends. My name is [Myname]"
"Hi, I'm [Cutegirl]"
"It's nice to meet you, [Cutegirl]"
[Smalltalk]
"Well, I'm in a hurry, but if I could get your number so we can sit down
and have some lunch one day, that'd be great."
"Okay, sure [Myname], here"
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